Safe sex during social distancing.

By Alice Little for the ASN Lifestyle magazine

Hi everyone. I'm Alice Little, a legal sex worker and educator, I'm here to answer the most common question on everyone's mind: how can I have safe sex during social distancing? Well, I have many tips to increase the safety factor and the sensuality factor, regardless of whether you are in a relationship, single or even in self-isolation.

safety first.

The number one question on everyone's mind right now is how to have safe sex during a pandemic. Fortunately, there are many ways to do this if you are willing to get creative and try something new. But before we begin with how to navigate sex during social distancing, we have to talk about risk and responsibility.

The best information we currently have about COVID-19 is that it is not safe to be within two meters of another person. If you live with your partner or partners, you can decide to continue having sex with them, because who wants to abstain along with self-isolation during this strange and historical period? Keep in mind that if you are not practicing social distancing, you are risking the risk of the virus. Even with masks, condoms, and other barriers to interaction, the virus is malignant. Scientists have found persistent traces of the coronavirus that last from a few hours to a few days (1), depending on the environment and the type of surface. That means that sharing furniture could mean sharing the coronavirus as well. So participating in any form of face-to-face sex opens you up to a small risk of contracting the virus.

If you are a swinger or have other types of open relationships with more than one partner, you will have to make more than one registration. The wider your circle, the greater the risk of contracting coronavirus, although if everyone practices social distancing, the risk is still relatively low. Decide how to proceed based on your medical history, risk tolerance, and your partners' comments.

The sad news is that currently, there is no foolproof way to guarantee that face-to-face sex and skin-to-skin contact is safe - that's the latest of the bad news. The good news is that fun options for solitary sex abound.

Creating sexual closeness during the pandemic.

If you are not living with your partners and they are forced to separate right now, this is your chance to try some new and creative sexual options, consider your natural talents before deciding which one will suit you. If you are a regular reader you may like sexting, if you are a closet exhibitionist you may want to try having sex in front of the camera.

How to start sexting.

If you've never had a chance to become an expert sexter, now you have a chance to practice. Ask your partner if they agree to receive explicit messages and then vent all those pent-up sexual energies that have been weighing you down. If you're feeling nervous or uncomfortable, that's okay, they may not know what kinds of sexual messages you like to send or receive until they take a test. Re-read your favorite sex chapters in the books, to test the nuance and descriptions you like, if you love open and direct sexuality, you may want to get straight to the point, if you prefer metaphorical sex scenes and discreet from classical literature, that's an option too, give your partner clues so they don't accidentally put you off in the process. The most important thing: take your time, if your work and your schedule allow it, dedicate the whole day so that no one is pressed and each text is carefully thought out.

How to try sex on video.

Now is the perfect opportunity to turn on the camera, choose a webcam setup that you trust. If you don't already own one, some are available on Amazon for little, even under $ 20. However, it may be worth your money to buy something of better video quality, especially if it will be used primarily for sexual purposes. Make sure you also have a microphone, as sound is a key component in the entire experience. Later, when you have plenty of time to explore sex on camera together, make a date.

Some people feel self-conscious on camera, or are just shy, these feelings can increase during video sex. Whatever you do, don't go into "performance mode," where your attention is focused on trying to be sexy instead of trying to connect. When you're acting, you're not experimenting, and that's less sexy for those involved. Sometimes it's helpful to mention that you're feeling nervous since your partner might be nervous too. But at least you won't have the added pressure of trying not to act nervous while trying to enjoy video sex.

Do not worry about creating the perfect camera angle to look sexy in each scene, better imagine yourself as an exhibitionist who is finally debuting, take some time before the date to do what you need to get in the mood. Light candles, read something erotic, have a glass of champagne or put on an outfit that makes you feel sexier.

When the time comes again, don't feel the need to be someone else. If you feel uncomfortable talking dirtier than usual, simply describe what you are feeling, or tell your partner what you have been fantasizing about doing to them in their absence. One of you could slowly undress and show the other a detailed masturbation session.

Try sex toys together.

Finally, if you have the economic possibility, there is no better time to invest in telecasts (2). Teledildonic sex toys use technology to transmit sensations between two sex toys. It can make the sex you have in the city (or the country!) Feel practically real. If you are single, some of the toys can be synced with porn for an incredible experience in solitude.

Tips for Conscious Masturbation During the Pandemic

Those who are single may need something a bit more during social distancing. Isolation is tricky, spending extra time trying new masturbation techniques or finding a connection is vital to your mental health.

If you're feeling lonely, reach out to some webcam artists (cam girls, for example) online. Brothels are closed for now, but that doesn't mean you can't support other sex workers in the meantime! Webcam artists are amazing at creating a fun and personalized experience for you.

Or try moving forward during masturbation. The limit is when you get close to the brink of orgasm and then take a little break. Not only can it help to improve its control, it can also improve its quality!

And lastly, delight in sexual self-care. Try different forms of pornography, such as audio or erotic pornography, whatever you find interesting that you haven't tried yet. Don't forget to take care of your pelvic floor, a firm pelvic floor can improve your sexual health and increase the intensity of your orgasms. No matter your gender identity, Kegel exercises are good for everyone! Try sensual stretching or self-massage and alternate the rhythms and types of contact you use during masturbation. You finally have time to learn something new about yourself, so use it to your advantage.

Visit TheAliceLittle.com for more articles on sex work, sex education, and to find out why I am America's number one earning legal sex worker. Or contact me directly to reserve part of my time at [email protected].

References

1. “New coronavirus stable for hours on surfaces”
https://www.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/new-coronavirus-stable-hours-surfaces

2. “Three innovations in sexual technology for people with penises”
https://futureofsex.net/sex-tech/3-sex-tech-innovations-for-people-with-penises/

3. “Level up your sex life with some sexy stretches.”
https://thealicelittle.com/advice/level-up-your-sex-life-with-some-sensual-stretching/

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